Sorry, I didn't answer a couple of Sandi2's questions after that insanely great post.
She gave me the ILYINILWY line after I kissed her in our closet getting ready to go to a football game. We had people coming in 15 min and she dropped that bomb on me. Like nothing I ever felt, until ...
No, she doesn't know that I know about the OM, but she has to have some idea. He texts her 20 times a night and it says "Lisa." I know -- and she can see me steaming. We actually got into it this evening because as we were talking about the kids her phone went off again and it was him.
I don't know what to expect when I confront her. I've given up on her running into my arms. But I was hoping she might see this ultimatum as her family being on the line. This is her last chance to save it.
