Don’t feel humbled. I am just a regular guy dude – just like you. There are many people on these boards that are special and I am honored to be able to call them my friends. We are in in this together. One day, you will be able to pay it forward. Remember this Troy.
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I need a game plan.
Need a game plan? Okay
Step 1 – Detach Step 2 – Detach some more Step 3 – Detach even more Step 4 – (done in conjunction with steps 1 – 3) – GAL Step 5 – Work on YOUR issues
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FOR YOU
Step 6 – Detach a lot more (usually at this step you have done a little GAL and done some work, usually the changes will be for HER and IF she does not notice them or come running back, you will get really angry – hence step 6 is detach) Step 7 – GAL (cause you will be angry and sad that she STILL does not acknowledge your changes – and your probably still doing them for HER) Step 8 – Work on you Step 9 – Start working out to get out some more anger Step 10 – Go on spending spree if you can afford it Step 11 – Detach more, do some serious soul searching Step 12 – Sit down and cry Step 13 – Go rub one out (at this point you’ll know why) Step 14 – Detach, cry and more soul searching Step 15 – Begin to emerge Step 16 – Regain your strength and accept that this is about HER Step 17 – Go live YOUR life Step 18 – Detach some more Step 19 – Really live your life Step 20 – Work on yourself (step 20 is performed concurrently with all other step and never ends)
Troy,
I have a few questions for you.
What is it about YOU that you do not like and want to change?
If I told you that in 1 year life would change dramatically BUT that you could do or have 3 things for YOU, what would they be?
What is love to you?
How would you describe yourself?
I’m just wondering.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
