Disbelief, My WAW left in June, so we have been seperated for 6 months now... Same story had an affair... I did not like it at first, but I settled into the whole deal and now I am ok with it... We are seeing a MC together...it is helping... We date some and go to kids school functions, etc... Please read the books...both DB and DR... Please start using the Michelle Davis LRT and 180 techniques... I immediately started using all this material within the first three weeks and it makes a Hill of a big difference... When you want to yell and vent...do it solo when you are by yourself... When you are around your wife show her the happy content confident you... I started seeing results within 1-2 months... Read Dr Harleys his needs/her needs and Love busters... Read, study, and implement the techniques...
Marriage is dam hard business...it is the common dynamic of two people trying to make a life as one...some days you barely like each other and other days you are quite smitten with each other... Marriage is the hardest work you will ever do, but it can be sweetly rewarding when the family is intact and a husband and wife work at meeting each others emotional needs...
So, please together let's roll up our sleeves and get to work... Thanks...
