New - Thinking of Another Man - Need Help

[gutwrenching]

I'll tag onto the great advice above. You need to clearly identify and articulate what is wrong and missing in your M. As the DB mod state, what was good before that you want back...and then very bluntly (not gently) tell your H. You might have to do this more than once, but that would have done a lot less damage to our M if my W had done that to me and I honestly believe it would have done the trick. Our M is still hanging on by a thread, but so much damage has been done by the EA that its not worth it. My strong advice is channel all your energy into trying to repair your M without any outside influences.