(((((BobbiJo))))) Guess what? I think that all made perfect sense! I don't think there's any surprise that you are feeling exactly what you are feeling. There's no reason to think that you would "click" with the first guy you go out with. Or the second or third, even! You could, but I think you'd be beating the odds.
But it seems totally reasonable that you'd still appreciate the attention and affection. Don't beat yourself up!
