My wife's bad mood or good mood does not mean I have bad mood or a good mood. (Believe me I understand how easy this is to say and hard to do)
That mood is mine.
Her actions, her drama, her poor choices, does not impact my day.
Maybe its easier for me, I have a teenage son, if I let his emo attitude and dissatisfaction with life (not truely the case) affect me, I be listening to AMI and about as cheerful as Eeorye.
Note to self: Detach dumba$$!
You called it. Just sayin'.
PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc