It's not over till it's over right?

[Piano]

Lost, I feel for you, my H is the same. Wouldn't help me, or only minor things such as your lightglobe. And I was pregnant!.
Fact is, because of OW, he wanted to get away from me fast. I made him feel trapped. OW was overseas, but it didn't matter, she was first on his priority list, not me.

Don't try to get him to stay and engage.

It's humiliation.

He can smell your need.

I am not meaning to sound harsh. I have been there and would still be there is H hadn't moved overseas to be with OW. I can DB anyway, because it's more about ME now. The same should apply to you, even if you have to see your H.

I also understand why you are wondering about OW and what they are up to or if they are still seeing each other. Don't. Don't 'rent' your headspace out to them! YOU deserve better and are worth more.