I guess the news of his engagement really knocked me. My L told me that she thought that would be the case but I just couldnt believe it. Why would I? He still professes to not having had an A yet he is marrying someone else after only 4 months of D. I guess what I am really battling to deal with is the deceit and betrayal.
It is what it is. Mine got married (no engagement ever mentioned) two weeks after our divorce was final....and he will still swear he didn't have an affair. They are delusional and have to believe their own lies. They have to be right to justify the horrible things they did. That is their burden to live with, not ours!
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
