Over four years ago, these same words was said to me. Not by GW, but others. Know how I felt about it? I hated it. I did not want to believe it and would tune it out.
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OM doesn't love you. He might love the thrill, he might love the excitement or PEA, but he doesn't truly love you. He can't. You've never met in person. He doesn't really know you. So stop your thinking about that.
You want to know who does love you, even if he is lousy at showing it, it is your H and your children.
I was so fogged out until I actually expected OM to propose to me.....and we hadn't even met in person! How stupid is that? GW is so right in what he's telling you. But I'm going to tell you something else......and you won't like it,but it was told to me (and I found out it was true). You are not the only female your OM has. You can bank on him having otherwoment that is playing that same game with him. He tells those other women the same stuff he's told you. That is his world! If this OM was very much....would he spending his time on line playing chess with a married woman twenty years older than him??? Wake up!! What kind of man he really is verses what he has you THINKING he is--are miles apart.
Three days long enough? No,but it's a start.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!