H pushing Divorce

[beastiemanager]

Courageous wife,
Thanks for responding. And thanks for boost! :>)

I decided to do a 180 and I did NOT meet with H. But I did ask him to write down what he wanted and leave it for me. He did. I told him I would look at it and send him a reply.

I have always bent in this situation whenever he texts. Always on his time, when he feels like it. I always comply. So I thought about it and decided, he expects me to do that, so I am going to do a 180 and NOT meet with him and do correspondence through email or text or letter.

I have to admit I felt good doing that. I did my usual thing and went to fave coffee house and met with D's as usual.

I did text him on a matter he left about him getting an appraiser to see home. I got scared and sent a text asking why the appraiser, am I going to lose my home? As he has told me that I will not. He did send a text back telling me NO, I was not losing home. And that he told me I would not. So I just told him OK, I do not trust easily, but I will trust you on this.

That was it.

I sure miss the man who was my H.