Damn I was trying to edit the above, but the time limit is nil if any.
Anyhows...I know Sandi alreay posted it,but..

Don't talk about R. If it does come up, just validate your W feelings. Don't argue.

Me 31 Wife 34
(Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6
Married 3/3/01
Separated 6/4/10
Bomb 6/14/10
Served 6/22/10
EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10
Now Back Together 8/1/10