[quote] Pull back and leave her alone except things regarding the children. Take special pride in your appearances. Polish up your manners. Have a positive mental attitude. Show a great personality. Be on your best behavior whenever you are around anyone, not just your W.
IMO, stop the snooping. It looks like it is consuming you. Do the above for now and you can work on things as this progress'.
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10