XH is marrying OW after only 5 months of D!!

[lea74]

Good point - I like the idea that he is not worthy of us. He has definitely downgraded.

I am going to disagree with you though. It is not their home and never will be. And they dont need to have a good time with her, they should be having a good time with their Dad. That is the purpose of contact to continue their relationship with the parent, dad. I know you will give me flack for this, but I feel strongly about the people my children are around and the types of values and morals that they are exposed to.

How do my kids know that she has hurt me: OW says really mean things about me to my kids and they arent stupid.

No they shouldnt like her - she destroyed our family and I dont have any relaionship with her.