XH is marrying OW after only 5 months of D!!

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Thanks Gabbysmom, really good advise. I was doing really well at making my own new memories up until recently. I guess the news of his engagement really knocked me. My L told me that she thought that would be the case but I just couldnt believe it. Why would I? He still professes to not having had an A yet he is marrying someone else after only 4 months of D. I guess what I am really battling to deal with is the deceit and betrayal. I have lived a fairly sheltered life, been with my XH since I was 14 so have never been with anyone else. Never been exposed to such families dramas, no divorces in the famiy. So I am still trying to understand how you can be with someone for 21 years and then lie and cheat and treat them with such disrespect. I am sure that this is an answe I will never be able to answer.