I just read Divorce Remedy while we were "trying" . Married 10 years this yr together 14...have 2 kids under 3....one day he says hes not happy---loves me not in love w/me. He just got transfered out of state and has been visiting every other weekend pretty much. He finally admitted having sex with random girls many years ago...but not since then...says we got married young and he felt like he missed out on "living" and realized that randoms werent making him any happier. He wants me to keep ALL of this a secret. His mom said if he doesnt WORK this out---she will never respect him. I told her to stop because THAT is why he has asked me to "pretend" to be working on it thru the holidays. He gives many mixed signals..never said divorce....just said he thought it was unfixable. was here all weekend slept in bed with me holding me kissing my head apologizing while i sobbed. Kissed me on lips goodbye 3 times when he left to go back. Now i am realizing WTF i am a doormat. NO MORE....i am telling him i want space. I think then i may say IF he still comes home for thksgvg that he can see kids...just not me. he stressed how much he loves me and doesnt want me to move back to my hometown. He fears he will nvr see the kids. I am afraid he is being super nice--and making lil efforts to make me think hwe can work this out...when maybe he really doesnt want to....UGHHHH
