Zen,
I think you are right on the money. If you can do this (which everything points to 'yes'!) you will be moving toward your goals as you said instead of away.

I somewhat confronted via e-mail in my sitch, now communication is gone. May not have been the best DB move but I couldn't stand by, it wasn't right for me as an individual... at least that is what I tell myself!

You are kickin' some @ss. Keep at it. The 48 rule rocks but is so incredibly hard to do. Way to go!!!

Your D3 is one lucky little girl to have you for a mommy!

(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."