Lace - I am a screaming extrovert - talk constantly. It is who I am, and gosh darnit, I am proud of it! BUT...I need to learn to listen better. Sometimes my H just wants to talk and me just listen. On reflection, that is one area of our relationship where I could really improve!
PEI recommended that I use a sucker when I talk to my H. When I have the sucker in my mouth, it would remind me to shut up!
Sometimes, it is best to keep our mouths shut and let them do the talking. If I was honest with myself, my H would probably talk himself out of a bad decision without any help from me. But I say that in reference to my OLD H not the crazy insane one I currently have!
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12
