Well I'm giving myself a bump here as it seems that most of my previous support group are not frequenting the forums due to a variety of reasons, which I am sorry to see and I do miss all of you really - you know who you are!
On another note I am still here, fighting what I hope is the good fight and doing what I think is constructive DB'ing. So I hope I can manage to enlist a few more vet's here to follow along and guide me on the journey ahead. For those who have managed to stay, Solei and Dane thanks for your continued support!
On a current note, had a great four days out camping and dirt bike riding with my d16 and some family friends of both myself and W. They do express their amazement of her wanting a D but they are not taking sides. It is good to be able to show my new and improved side to our friends - it really makes me feel like I am doing the right thing(s) in getting my life pointed where it should - it does make me feel great and also sorry for the W - she's going to miss the best part of me.
Anyway just a quick update - everyone have a good week out there!
DD
Me 49 H 46 M 23yrs T 25 yrs Bomb Drop 4/2010 S22/D19/D15/S13
Same roof, different beds
"Honestly I can say this trip into my own private hell is a journey that I know now I had to take."