Zen,

you are getting a L, right? I like your approach more these days. I wondered what could be accomplished by asking him about OW although you say HE'D have the nerve to mind if YOU had an OM. Interesting hypocrisy there. Oh well.

You also said you'd want to know each time d3's around others or OW. Why? Aside from dangerous felons, what's the point of knowing each time? Won't that just irk you every time you hear of it? It sure won't help you detach.
That's my .02, which is worth less each day.
j


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change