Set your goals and have a plan. Conduct your actions based on your plan. I know we women base most everything on our feelings, but we can't always rely upon them. You will be faced with many different emotions before this is over. Don't let your emotions dictate your life. Do what you know is right.
Enjoy that little girl! I know you must be thankful to have her in your life.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!