maybe this in infidelity? i posted in newcomers to though. hi everyone. my second post here. i look at my h and wonder who i married ten years ago. we are both in our 30s have no kids, a good sex life and i thought things were going great. we both work and our weekends are free to do whatever we want. we take great vacations too. sounds wonderful, right? well, i woke up in the middle of the night and he was at the computer looking at porn. and it was some that i never knew existed because i just don't know that much about that and i was so shocked and he was so embarrassed that i caught him. he apologized and promised he'd nevr do it again. and well, guess what? he can't stop. he looks so ashamed and i feel bad that im making him feel bad but i don't see why i"m not enough for him. who is the man i married? anyone who hs any advice is welcome to help me. thank you.