Flowmom - I was just going to post the same thing about pictures. I'm sure some of the guys I am nixing based on their photos might actually be cute in real life - I just don't have the time to go out on coffee dates with all of them to find out. So guys, try to put up some flattering photos. And try NOT to put up the awful ones, lol. I've seen a few guys where I thought - "Oh, he's kinda cute" then I scroll down to some awful pic and think "Ok, not so much". Not that there shouldn't be some truth in advertising - I've known a lot of guys who complained about women showing up and looking nothing like their pictures. The pics should look like you, but you on a GOOD day. And if there are cute women in the shot with you, please explain that it's your sister (or, as one guy explained, his "BFF of 16 years".
