I chose the road less traveled by #32

[kat727]

Using my name is even more special. So few people can pronounce it without me saying it several times. It has been a pain my whole life. So even though it is nice to be unique, I would have preferred it to not be my name that made me stand out so much. It starts with an X by the way and it is Greek, though I am Irish.

So using my name (and the added bonus of having it said correctly) definetly earns points!

kat

[Kalni]

Your name is pretty unique. It is rare in Greece also. It means "blonde" and it sounds like a heroin (this looks weird-not the drug)of a novel.

Hugs
K

[kat727]

And of course, we all know I am not a blond. lol I have dark brown hair. The one thing about that which is nice, I have always wanted to be the heroine of my own life, so it works.

I think my parents thought it would be a more common name in Greece. Really, who KNOWS what they were thinking(besides wanting to name me what they thought would be my hair color)!! Crazy parents. Love them though.

Just a word to the wise..don't name your kids these weird, really strange names. It is not a fun weight to bare.

kat

[kat727]

OMG!! Now I got two girls emailing me with topless photos!! I am not gay, though nothing is wrong with it. How do I block this crap???

Kat

[desert_rat]

Change your privacy setting so that no one that isn't a friend, or a friend of a friend can see you.

They hide it....
Go to Account->Privacy Settings
Up at the top it says "Connecting on Facebook"
You can choose a few different things there, from who can see you in a search, who can send you messages, etc.

[kat727]

Can't acess all of that on my iPod but I will be hopping on the boys computer as soon as they get home. Thanks. I know I do have it set where only friends can see me/my wall.

Kat

[desert_rat]

Yeah, there's two different screens of settings. People can find you even without seeing your wall.

[kat727]

The boys just told me that the girlie emails were actually viruses. I will be double checking that out.

[desert_rat]

I think there are viruses if you go to the link in the message. The message itself is only offensive!

[kat727]

I checked everything and it looks as if only friends can read my stuff but I suppose anyone can still send you a message. Whatever!

I wonder how I got to this place. I can talk to my ex and not really feel anything one way or the other. I know despite his actions that he loves our kids so I just keep that in the front of my mind. Really looking back over everything, I have always been able to stay friends with ex's. It may take some time but we always end up able to talk. So I guess that is a good trait/ability I have.

I am feeling happy and peaceful and don't have a clue why. I am just going to enjoy it.

kat