You are absolutely correct on all points. I started going to the gym, going out with friends, and then realized that I was worth more than what she was telling and giving me. The gym gives you the inner confidence needed to get through this whole thing. I went from a broken man to someone who has a good deal of optimism about the future. Going through the process of D is going to be tough, but after that's done.....look out world!
M:39 W:37 Together: 16 years Married: 11 years Bomb: May '09 (ILYBNILWY) Moved out: Nov '09 D: 10, 8, 4