but updating a wesbite dedicated to my child already is very proactive and a chore as I would not do it under normal circumstances
I have had to do a lot of things from my kids that I think are "chores". My job as a parent is to give them the best life I can. Regardless of how I feel about my W. She is there mother and should be a part of my kids lives. So if it cost me a little more time BUT puts a smile on my kids face. It is worth it.
The man that I have become will not allow my anger to dictate my life or my choices.
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I don't think I will EVER respect H again unless he motivates himself to do this on his own.
Your ability to respect him has nothing to do with YOUR childs need to have her father in her life IF her father chooses to be.
Let go of the anger Piano and maybe things will look a little differnt. Oh, and FTR, you do have EVERY right to be pissed the f*ck off. Just make sure your daughter does not reap the fall out of this anger. Use it to protect YOU emotionally not to punish him or anyone else.
Just sayin...
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
