I completely hear you on the school stuff. I definitely respect you and all the teachers like you that do the best you can with what you are given. It's so sad that although the # 1 priority should be the kids and helping them get the best education possible but unfortunately, that always seems to take the backburner, especially in light of all the budget cuts. There's no easy answer, but it's definitely frustrating.
I think regarding talking with H about the trust issue, you are just going to have to let go. I'm sure you've seen by now that there is nothing H can say to help ease that worry (if he even gives you a response in the first place). Really, the only way to rebuild trust is to see action, but now that you are not actively involved in each others life, so would not have the opportunity nor the desire to do so. I think you just have to accept that and be cognisent of the truth of which it is based on (meaning there is history for the reason you don't trust him, so don't let it rule you, but still be weary, esp if it could ever affect S. ie. if the corporation thing turns out to be true).
I totally hear you about the no response text back thing. SOOOO FRUSTRATING! H had a time where he was doing that to me too (always expected a response from me but hardly ever gave them back). I finally called him on it and he got a little better, but unfortunately, I don't think that would work for your H. Maybe let him see how if feels sometimes. Obviously it's important to be responsive about S, but if he texts like something about his Harry Potter Dvd's again, he can just continue to sit there and wonder!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
