What did you do to control these urges...??? Any advice here on breaking "Love Addiction"???
Saw IC specializing in this yesterday (posted on FMV's forum) and it was very helpful, but I feel the need for 3 weeks worth of sessions THIS week in order to keep myself from doing something stupid, pathetic, and wrong.
I keep pushing OM away, but in an odd way it makes me more desperate to run back and say "Do you still love me?". Ugh, feel horrified and pathetic.
IC said to shift the focus and priority onto loving myself, 1st and foremost. He said it is a basic human need to connect and bond, and I've got to find that elsewhere ... Every human being needs 2-3 very, very close friends. Me - zero. Nobody I would ever tell this to, so seeing IC yesterday was a huge relief.
HELP!! Help me stop myself from degrading myself wanting to pursue a man 20 years younger, 1000 miles away that I've kicked to the curb. In a way, it's just added more drama to the situation and my feelings.
PLEASE tell me something (other than the obvious that what I'm doing is wrong) to help me break this addiction. I just need feedback, and connection to somebody OTHER than OM!
