Holidays can bea tough time but I have lots to do, even time to wallow when I am in the mood.... My intention is to get together with the H and begin to negotiate terms of the D. Don't know how far we will get as I'm sure that this will be quite a process for both of us.
The youngest will come home for a few days, the oldest will not be able to get home. I will go to Xmas with the H at his families' annual do. I have no quarrel with them and he still has not told them. That is not up to me, it is up to him. His family are nice people and we always enjoy ourselves, so why not go?
Thanks for checking in, and try to keep your sanity during these busy times. I did not realize that you went back to work.
