D4 and I made muffins last night and she asked if we could bring some to daddy. So we dropped some off at his apartment this morning before he got home from work with a note that D had made them and that I hoped his transition to night shift went okay. He likes little thoughtful gifts, but I hope it doesn't come across as pursuing - I really don't care if he acknowledges them or not. This morning I'm more angry at him - I like angry better than depressed, and it gives me more of a chance to work on the not reacting badly part of my personal growth.