I can relate completely. It's such a blow to the ego. I was actually told "the thought of being with you makes me want to vomit". How does that impact your self-esteem? I've gotten the worst, but I have still come out of this alright. I'm decent looking, not a model, but not ugly either. I know that I'll be fine, but a relationship that ended the way it did for us can severely hamper your confidence.
M:39 W:37 Together: 16 years Married: 11 years Bomb: May '09 (ILYBNILWY) Moved out: Nov '09 D: 10, 8, 4