My personal goals are more about attitude. I come from a family of yellers, and I realized that I was doing too much of that myself. So I'm working on controlling how I react to being angry
I can identify with that. However, my H admires women who show poise and grace when confronted with adverse situations. So, I was digging myself into a hole whenever I blew up. I got a lot farther when I acted more lady-like.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
