Living with a wife for so long that I felt was not attracted to me and sometimes the rejection was so bad that I would even ask her if she was, her answer was always yes. "It's not you, it's me." I know I should have seen the red flags but I was stupid. Finally she showed her true feelings by divorcing me and chasing a married man.
That is such a blow to the ego it can be hard to beleive that you "still have it." I have many people in my life who tell me that I am attractive, I have a radio voice, I have good hands, I am witty and funny, blah blah blah
I don't want to find someone just because my XW is dating someone but it can be hard to really ask myself to be honest about that.
I can atleast say that who I am looking for now is not a replacement for my XW, I have had enough of her! lol
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
