If you are piecing your M back together, then it is time to slowly open up the communication.

So asking him to read the 5 LLs MIGHT be ok...depends on how committed you two are and factors like that

M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11