H's MLC - he is still lost but I found myself

[Mila]

Journaling -

H send me an email this morning that he is "working out of town this week"(read going to see OW)...don't know which day he left...didn't see him since last Tuesday and don't know when he is coming back. And he knew that the SA will be ready tomorrow and I was hoping that we are close to signing it...so I guess it will have to wait until he gets back and I'm sure he will want his lawyer to look it over...weeks go by and I just want the darn thing signed at this point...

H left town to help OW move, she is getting a better/bigger apartment....she still has no job...spends her days in exercise classes and taking french lessons according to her H.

D asked me to go and look for a car with her again today. I said daddy wanted to be involved in looking as well (he told me that he wants to "be involved" in it a couple of weeks ago) D replied, "didn't he go away again?" I said "yes" and she said "It's not our problem that he is not here, lets go" and off we went.

BTW asked her how did she know that he is out of town, did he tell her? D said "no he didn't but I always know when he is away...I don't hear from him at all"

We had fun looking and test driving and of course she fell in love with a little car that she really wants...but of course it's more money then she has so she was hoping that we can help with the difference....so she wants to call her dad...And he apparently told her "if mom said it's OK go for it" (leaving it up to me as usual).

D told me that he also said that he is very sorry that he can't be here buying it with her. She said "Mom I told him that that's his fault and he got very mad with me"......

So being with OW still takes priority over our business and over his daughter...I'm not even mentioning me...