I've only just begun!

[sandycay]

Hi Sandycay! A couple of comments:
1) When Hunter guy said "call me after the game to do dinner" I totally took that to be simple- you said you were going to a game. He didn't want to interfere with that! No, he was watching the game at his house alone... I was meeting a study group during the game, unsure of how long the study session was going to last.

2) About him not asking about you...I have been single way longer than married and dated lots of men. MOST of them didn't ask about me. Could be a guy thing. Jump in there and after you ask about him, volunteer stuff about yourself and see how he responds. I have had mostly positive results from this.

3)The looks thing...again, many guys don't compliment!

4)About the hug- seems like he is being respectful. If you know that you are attractive and the date went well, then don't worry that he isn't "into" you- after all, he did initiate another date! I bet you will get a kiss the next time. Are you giving him signals that you find him attractive like touching his arm or letting your feet touch his under the table or walking close to him, letting your body touch his? I did intiate some contact on Friday night when bowling touched his shoulder as i was walking around him telling him way to go on his strike.... i initiated several light exchanges.... he did hug me quickly once after he made a strike. We have been out 3 times so far.

5) AWESOME that 32 year olds are interested in you!What a nice compliment! I get so many winks from men in their mid to late forties and fifties...it is evolutionary/biologically programmed for men to go for "childbearing" women (even if they don't want more kids)but they are certainly missing out AREN'T they? I find it egotistical to be honest!

you wouldn't believe the men my age and older that have either never been married or want to start having kids... so that kinda rules out most women in my age range... plus 90 % of men in my age range have 25year old women to two years younger than themselves on their profile. I don't respond to any of those men, cause they dont' have a clue what is going to happen to them and they haven't learned any lessons about life yet as far as I'm concerned. It's as big a turn off as the dufus standing in his dirty bathroom mirror taking bare chested shot...GROSS....now if your doing something water related then it's totally understandable.