I already have one child, and don't want to treat my H like another. He only has to do a quick Google search to see a myriad of ways to interact long distance with a child (all inadequate, granted, but they're there for what they are worth). I don't think I will EVER respect H again unless he motivates himself to do this on his own. Yes I have to not block him, but updating a wesbite dedicated to my child already is very proactive and a chore as I would not do it under normal circumstances.
