Originally Posted By: hope for zen
All I can do is detach and make life at home safe for my D3.

I REALLY HATE THIS!

But... shouldn't I at least tell him this isn't ok? Or does he know that I feel that way? Does he even care?


At this point you do not have confirmation that she was there ...

Jack once told me: if you are gonna hop on the crazy train, at least make sure it's going through the right town (or something like that).

Yes, keep working on detachment. Yes focus on you and D3.

What would be your purpose, your expectation, of telling him?

Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc