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So basically, I can't enforce this.

Can you? I know that I couldn't here in my province.

Also, my H already knows this is wrong. If he thought it was ok, he would have told me.

That's mind reading. No one can know that for sure. In my case, H doesn't see anything wrong with it, his love goggles are VERY foggy.

He isn't going to listen and even if we agree on something, he will ignore it whenever he feels like it.

Probably. Quite possibly. Doesn't mean you can't say something, just means that IF you do, make sure you do it without an expectation.

I hate this.

Me too sweetie, me too.

IF you truly feel the need to get some info in front of him re the effects of OW exposure, it probably only stands a chance of being heard if it comes from an objective third party. It didn't work with my H, but I now know that I did what I could and he has all the information out there, his choices are his own as are his mistakes.

No one knows your sitch as well as you do ... enact the 48 hr rule and do nothing for now, sit on the info and mull it over, really examine your motives (I did this checking for resentment and anger, and yes, I found that I really do just believe this is NOT what is best for my kids) and really spend time thinking about what you can do, what you should do ...

Peace
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