In the process

[newmama]

The problem with these dating sites for me is, they have to be physically attractive, because their personality can't capture me first. Very shallow sounding, I know

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NOT at all! I tried doing that in the past, thinking the attraction would grow but NO it didn't. I even tried that out since this round of dating but, nope, I am the same way!

ANd something about me attracts the overweight not so healthy looking guys I am not attracted too....

Hey, many of the men that wink at me are overweight or slobby or not attractive. I am wondering if being a single mom is scaring others away?

I am not that hot, so I guess i can't expect much better, but jesus, just look like you take care of yourself a little! I am by no means thin, but I take care of my self with exercise....

SHUT UP, GM! You ARE beautiful and sexy! Honestly! Remember what your guy friends have told you!

Yeah, the OK cupid seems like Plenty of Fish in the sense that it is about booty calls. Seriously- not too impressed so far.

BUt I am still going to keep "fishing" and just have a profile up on both Cupid and Match because if you don't "buy a ticket" then how can you win the lottery? You know?

I think my new profile might be too boring sounding. I am getting way less attention than when I changed it last.