Mainly I believe H wants what is best for his D, and that really is important to him. He just isn't thinking past himself.
He also seems to be reaching out to me for parenting advice. I keep it minimal and tell him he will figure out what works for him, but this really requires an agreement between us.
He is also afraid of loosing contact with her. Coming up, H is about to be opening the restaurant. That means working almost 7 days a week and closing up at 3am. This is going to last through the holidays, probably much longer. I have never tried to keep D3 from him, but I have left him to figure out pick up & drop off on his own. He is bassically asking me to do a lot to help him get time with D3. I am not doing backflips, but I am going to help. D3 does need to see him.
