My 40 year old wife's MLC

[crushednstuck]

Troy,
I'm still battling the same anger 14 months later. Before my W moved out, I put the kids to bed, cooked, cleaned inside and did all the work outside while she reclined in our marital bed Facebook-ing and texting the OM.
All my friends know that I was always the one playing outside with the kids, grilling for parties, setting up for holidays, while she did jack-sh*t. I did it all and she re-wrote our history as though I was Satan.
Once I realized everyone was on my side, I realized my W was no closer to coming back.
Going to that party made you feel vindicated. It feels good because you are right. But did it get you any closer to your goal of repairing your M? Be sure that's what you want, then stop creating obstacles to her coming back.