What I can do is ask that we make rules together that will apply to both of us about when and how much contact D3 has with "other people." I think by saying this should apply to both of us he will agree. He is not going to like the idea of having no control over who his baby is arround any more than I do.
This ^^^ sounds very reasonable. My question is still WHY? And do you have an expectation of him actually following through if he agrees? If he does not follow the agreement, then what?
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc