I got your post on my thread earlier and have been catching up ... first of all, let me say I'm sorry for what you are going through right now, and trust me when I say I totally get it. Unfortunately, most of us do. I'm not a vet ... been kicking around here for a bit but there are many with much more time under their belts than I. That being said, I will offer my two cents (ask Jack, I've never been shy with words )...
This sucks. Period. I have a couple of questions ...
You stated earlier in your threads that you know OW, is she a physical threat to your child?
If he confirms OW and/or her participation in the camping trip, what boundary do you intend to set?
How do you intend to enforce ^^^ that boundary if he crosses the line?
PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc