Sometimes we have to accept circumstances that we hate. That is your situation now. You won't get what you want. It isn't going to happen. So it is up to you to figure out a new life for yourself. Your old life is over. It won't come back. You can stand around and cry over it, or you can move on and create a whole new life for yourself.
I don't know if there are still other women on this website in the same situation you are. There were 2 women a few months ago whose husbands had children out-of-wedlock with other women. Babygirl was one of them. Perhaps you could look up her posts and see how she dealt with it. I don't remember the name of the other woman, but her posts would be on Babygirl's thread because they were friends.
