+1 We are all (to some extent) involved in "conditioning" and creating responses from our spouses by our actions and in action.
Positive and loving feedback for things we like is important. It is important to thank our spouse for what they do right rather than just critisize them for what they do wrong.
>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.
