So here is a first draft of what I am thinking of saying to my H. I am feeling better, but still not back on my feet all the way yet. Feedback is appreciated.
I noticed you took all 3 of the sleeping pads on the camping trip. I didn't realize anyone else was going.
(pause for answer...)
If H says: Yes, OW was there. Then… I know we haven’t talked about when and how much contact D3 should have with anyone you or I are interested in or dating. I think we should get together and discuss this sometime soon. I believe we will be able to work out something we can agree to that keeps D3’s insulated from our own personal lives.
D3 is smart, but she is still so young and has so a lot to sort out already for such a little girl. It could be confusing for little kids to have to figure out their parent’s new relationships too.
If H denies anyone was there or has some other story. Then… I am glad to hear that. D3 is smart, but she is still so young and has so a lot to sort out already for such a little girl. It could be confusing for little kids to have to figure out their parent’s new relationships too.
I know we haven’t talked about when and how much contact D3 should have with anyone you or I are interested in or dating. I think we should get together and discuss this before it becomes an issue. I believe we will be able to work out something we can agree to that keeps D3’s insulated from our own personal lives as both of us move on.
His answer is really irrelevant. I just need to tell him I disapprove and set a time to get together and talk about our D3. I do want to talk with my IC first. He is supposed to be setting an appointment with my H this week. I don’t want to mess that up, but I do want to talk to my H soon.
