Originally Posted By: Jack
A codependant person would take them back, well because they NEED them.

A white knight will rescue them and take them away from all the pain.

A husband will work with her to rebuild some things, her self esteem, trust and a realtionship.


Thank for this Jack.

This is how I feel. This is me.

This is who will decide how long, if, when and why.

I was the white knight and then when I could not rescue I became resentful.

That guy did say some horrible things and made bad choices.

That guy is way back on these pages.

I was struggling with that part of it. That part reconciling whether this person who I might never even have known for real

who is my W, could be person I want to be with.

The person I want to be knows there are no guarantees.

He knows that fear is part of my old M. My old self.

And so are all the things that happened because of it.

As always we have to live these things for them to truly become part of us.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am