H pushing Divorce

[beastiemanager]

Update. I received another paper from court. It is to tell me of, I believe, final hearing for divorce. It is in early December. So H is adamant,as always. He sent me text last evening asking me if I would meet with him tomorrow to talk over more stuff on divorce. I thought about it and thought about it.

I was going to stop my day and meet with him. But my helper has also reminded me that I am NC,dark. And there are the 180's. So I am going to do another 180 and not meet with him. I sent him a text asking that he put what he wants in a letter and leave it for me, or he can email the info. I will look at it and send him a reply.

This is wearing, is it not? I had a good hard cry form being tired.I was just wore out with that stuff. Texts, notes, papers, letters. Every holiday.

I have allowed H to ruin every Holiday for 2 years. I am NOT going to allow that to be this year! he managed to send something rotten for EVERY holiday. It is uncanny really. But enough about him. I am detaching,detaching...stretching out that.......................c-o-r-d...snap! There. Detached. :>)If it were only that easy.