Thank you Mr. Bond. I was leaning toward that way, but sometimes its so hard not to second-guess yourself. We haven't had ANY relationship talks although he/we talk about our future. Not necessarily about our future relationship but about the things that we will be doing in the future. He is inching his way toward me more than at any time in out 9 year marriage. Its so weird this see-saw effect. Our sex life has been tough these past few years. I wanted it, alot, he came to not want it at all. It was how I felt loved but now I realize I came off needy and clingy. He then was "Im not attracted to you". I haven't initiated it at all in the past 3 months and he hasn't either. I occasionally see signs of him either kissing on the cheek or peck on the lips but nothing that would lead to sex. I have to be more patient I know but man is this hard.
