You don't necessarily need R talks right off the bat. Start off with being honest with each other and start enjoying each other again.

The hard talks will come up, but when you're first piecing, you need to start establishing a level of comfort and trust with each other first.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER